tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post8117656293752848426..comments2023-09-12T02:20:32.304-07:00Comments on Unconsummated: Congenital Neuroproliferative VestibulodyniaSad Jewish Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17838326460495637726noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-46296783054551045152012-12-11T04:06:44.039-08:002012-12-11T04:06:44.039-08:00You very well may be able to get a heter for condo...You very well may be able to get a heter for condoms; I personally know one woman who did, and I'm sure there are many other women who have. B'hatzlacha with it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-84262944415844069832012-11-18T15:40:28.655-08:002012-11-18T15:40:28.655-08:00REgarding pain reduction after birth: This is def...REgarding pain reduction after birth: This is definitely not everyone's experience. My friend is a former patient of Dr. Goldstein who had good results (I think she commented as Ms. A or some variant and I also believe she may have messaged you privately) after the surgery. She had a vaginal birth a couple of years before the surgery and in her case it didn't help at all. Obviously, experiences vary a lot...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-23716574745414487602012-11-17T13:40:22.001-08:002012-11-17T13:40:22.001-08:00I have vestibulodynia too. I was just wondering if...I have vestibulodynia too. I was just wondering if you've gone for PT and if it helped at all. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-21459188831068660092012-11-16T12:44:44.750-08:002012-11-16T12:44:44.750-08:00Some questions you might ask the doctor about the ...Some questions you might ask the doctor about the surgery:<br /><br />Why did the researchers follow up with only 215 of the 415 women?<br /><br />What data can he give you regarding patients of his who were candidates for this surgery but did not end up having it performed?<br /><br />And, given the comment above, what data does he have about pregnancy and vaginal delivery with this condition and the status of this condition after vaginal delivery?<br /><br />Also, in addition to making recommendations for second opinions, can he put you in touch with any former patients?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-5546907664060428492012-11-13T10:46:26.811-08:002012-11-13T10:46:26.811-08:00I went through almost the exact same experience as...I went through almost the exact same experience as you. I was about to go through with the surgery with Dr. Goldstein and for a few reasons, ended up not going through with it. Soon after I got pregnant with my first baby and after the baby was born, I had significantly less pain (and I was diagnosed with the same exact thing). I guess I got stretched out a lot and the nerves were just not as sensitive anymore. Then I had to work on all the emotions and negativity I had built up towards sex because of the initial problem. Things were good and then I had another baby. After the second was born, pain was all gone. And things only got better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-60950737188345442632012-11-13T07:20:18.520-08:002012-11-13T07:20:18.520-08:00there is spermicidal foams that are used which is ...there is spermicidal foams that are used which is hallachaclly better than condomsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-57454064100083000122012-11-12T19:40:47.831-08:002012-11-12T19:40:47.831-08:00Sigh. Good grief. I get really depressed when I ha...Sigh. Good grief. I get really depressed when I have medical problems, and reading this post depressed me. It's just a lot to think about. Sad when your body doesn't work!! Will definitely pray that G-d provide the money you need for the surgery, time off from work, etc, and a full recovery. Will also pray for your emotions and patience. Such a rollercoaster! --YCFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com