tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post4413267387153759662..comments2023-09-12T02:20:32.304-07:00Comments on Unconsummated: CatharsisSad Jewish Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17838326460495637726noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-30121957836392235972015-09-01T11:55:15.300-07:002015-09-01T11:55:15.300-07:00Just found your blog and started at the beginning....Just found your blog and started at the beginning. I have happy tears in my eyes. YAAAY!!! I'm so happy for you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17931764224581438697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-30913572497498259302013-11-16T19:26:45.926-08:002013-11-16T19:26:45.926-08:00I am crying! So very happy for you and your husban...I am crying! So very happy for you and your husband for being able to finally experience this beautiful joining and to enjoy it! Praise G-d!Aurienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-51444617800278858472013-01-10T22:54:18.590-08:002013-01-10T22:54:18.590-08:00I am nineteen years old, and not married yet. But ...I am nineteen years old, and not married yet. But I really felt for you when I read all your posts. And this one made me cry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-77774151293191699692011-07-06T18:50:49.157-07:002011-07-06T18:50:49.157-07:00Mozel Tov! I've been keeping up with you for a...Mozel Tov! I've been keeping up with you for a couple of months now and had goosebumps when I read that you two finally succeeded. KEEP BLOGGING! You are an intriguing window into the community and I think you have important insight to share. Good luck you two.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-23020387123671735102011-07-05T07:35:33.541-07:002011-07-05T07:35:33.541-07:00I'm so very happy for both you and your husban...I'm so very happy for both you and your husband. I've been reading your blog for a while, and although I never had to endure the specific problem you have, I felt a lot of kinship for you. I am from a similar background to you, but only finally met and married my wonderful husband when I was 34 - so you can appreciate that was a different kind of 'not fitting' the Orthodox world we come from, although mine was more obvious and not hidden, and a different kind of pain. <br /><br />I have been glad for you all along that this did happen to you in a committed, happy relationship, because I imagine the issue of vaginismus must be far worse to deal with if you are single/not in a loving relationship and then find it happening to you. I can imagine avoiding dealing with the problem - and avoiding any kind of relationship - because of it. You had and have what is clearly a strong and wonderful marriage within which to deal with this painful issue. Obviously it would have been better for you if you hadn't had to deal with it at all, but I believe this was the best situation within which to have to deal with it.<br /><br />I wish you and your husband years of discovery and pleasure and love with each other. I had tears in my eyes as I read this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-34649542643466101372011-07-04T10:28:12.031-07:002011-07-04T10:28:12.031-07:00I hope you've been making up for lost time! (A...I hope you've been making up for lost time! (And that's why there hasn't been an update in a few days).<br /><br />Congrats!Frankenbloghttp://www.frankenblog,comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-4857341816922672862011-07-03T18:54:09.369-07:002011-07-03T18:54:09.369-07:00Mazal tov!
I'm so happy for you both! :)
But...Mazal tov!<br /><br />I'm so happy for you both! :)<br /><br />But as everyone else said, don't stop blogging! You don't need to keep sharing your sex life, but raising awareness of these issues continues to be important, so please don't stop here.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10634239618256988204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-84804593785298288732011-06-30T15:42:00.145-07:002011-06-30T15:42:00.145-07:00Mazel Tov!!!!!!!!!!Mazel Tov!!!!!!!!!!Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15881590483174001768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-1349880183370122502011-06-30T14:02:36.871-07:002011-06-30T14:02:36.871-07:00Mazel Tov!
Your post is the perfect, happy ending...Mazel Tov!<br /><br />Your post is the perfect, happy ending to a wonderful day. I truly hope and pray for the best for you and your husband from Hashem!<br /><br />Yeah!<br /><br />I'm so happy for you I could jump around and scream :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-60439836056023557522011-06-30T07:54:22.738-07:002011-06-30T07:54:22.738-07:00Congrats
I only ask you change the name of the bl...Congrats<br /><br />I only ask you change the name of the blog to HAPPY JEWISH GIRLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-13281503968342706482011-06-29T21:07:28.635-07:002011-06-29T21:07:28.635-07:00Mazal tov!! So, so happy for you <3Mazal tov!! So, so happy for you <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-54638897869158626612011-06-29T20:57:33.151-07:002011-06-29T20:57:33.151-07:00I have been reading your blog since it was linked ...I have been reading your blog since it was linked on metafilter and came to truly care for your situation. Add me to the growing list of readers to get tears in my eyes! Have a happy, healthy, beautiful life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-26826497466678677982011-06-29T20:28:29.750-07:002011-06-29T20:28:29.750-07:00I've been checking back to read this post. Maz...I've been checking back to read this post. Mazel Tov!! I hope you have a wonderful and beautiful marriage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-26507260214012065522011-06-29T20:05:11.344-07:002011-06-29T20:05:11.344-07:00Mazal Tov!Mazal Tov!Taniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11100062530713381476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-85896146469034206342011-06-29T19:46:41.941-07:002011-06-29T19:46:41.941-07:00Could anything be happier than this wonderful upda...Could anything be happier than this wonderful update!! My wife and I are so thrilled for you both. Enjoy each other to the max.Shlomo Yitzhaknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-49248708313676124582011-06-29T17:01:26.197-07:002011-06-29T17:01:26.197-07:00YAY!!!YAY!!!Yael Hanoverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10406013588219525590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-10098158104869468122011-06-29T16:30:53.248-07:002011-06-29T16:30:53.248-07:00Similar to many other commenters, I also shed a te...Similar to many other commenters, I also shed a tear. So happy for you and your husband.Emesdikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03611429803024100733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-45282394767708921942011-06-29T15:02:11.600-07:002011-06-29T15:02:11.600-07:00very happy for you....
Your writing is lovely, bu...very happy for you....<br /><br />Your writing is lovely, but if you want to end your blog, it's ok... I just hope you keep it posted for other women with the same problem.scarpetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04048255963372452197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-30195737037066245762011-06-29T12:44:36.781-07:002011-06-29T12:44:36.781-07:00so happy for you! congrats!!! really appreciate yo...so happy for you! congrats!!! really appreciate your honesty about this whole situation. keep on blogging!adenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04084488953399687768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-56697124287681157832011-06-29T10:40:15.282-07:002011-06-29T10:40:15.282-07:00its all been said by the others but i want to repe...its all been said by the others but i want to repeat, great news and please dont end your blog. you are more honest than anyone else and its worthwhile to continue.still waitinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809028195061571821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-39909010979363127252011-06-29T09:40:54.844-07:002011-06-29T09:40:54.844-07:00I've been following your blog and checking eve...I've been following your blog and checking every single day since your last post. I am crying for how happy I am for you. IY"H One day I will be married and will be able to find a husband as wonderful as yours. This week when I lit shabbos candles, I asked a special Bracha that hashem will help you along in this journey so that you and your husband will be able to consummate. <br /><br />All the love in the world for you both. I am giving you a virtual hug.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-3808675859368153372011-06-29T09:35:15.217-07:002011-06-29T09:35:15.217-07:00A very beautiful and thoughtful way to move into t...A very beautiful and thoughtful way to move into this stage of your marriage. I hope you keep posting about how you deal with any residual issues or conflicts you might experience, or at least a post summing up the arc of your experiences - what went wrong, what went right etc. I'm sure it will be of help to others going through the same thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-8189423905607352132011-06-29T09:21:59.221-07:002011-06-29T09:21:59.221-07:00Mazal Tov !! Extremely happy for you !
It's am...Mazal Tov !! Extremely happy for you !<br />It's amazing to see that all the therapies (including blogging) brought about true happiness.<br /><br />May you be zoche to happiness and success in your marriage.<br /><br />Wow, I don't even know you and I'm so excited for you !!<br /><br />Please please don't stop blogging, I love your blog and how you manage to put such strong feelings into word and how emotions transpire from every sentenceStuck in Shidduchimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06461611507441907415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-64708292995096941382011-06-29T07:06:44.984-07:002011-06-29T07:06:44.984-07:00I am really really happy for you. I would understa...I am really really happy for you. I would understand why the blog would end here, but I wish it won't.AriSparkleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05353792696786575669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-39458687535889582692011-06-29T06:47:14.951-07:002011-06-29T06:47:14.951-07:00I am very happy for you . What is happening on thi...I am very happy for you . What is happening on this blog from now on , please don't close it because I have really enjoyed reading it.Velvel Belkinnoreply@blogger.com