tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post3199151608735506712..comments2023-09-12T02:20:32.304-07:00Comments on Unconsummated: Sex TherapySad Jewish Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17838326460495637726noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-55536998701353369842012-05-02T10:27:34.676-07:002012-05-02T10:27:34.676-07:00I was thinking individual counseling might be help...I was thinking individual counseling might be helpful for you. The emotional issues you describe could lead to sexual issues, I think. Unable to have sex with someone your family disapproves of might be an unconscious means of staying loyal to your family. Marrying someone your family disapproves of shows you want to rebel and break free. I sense an approach-avoid conflict, you yearn to be independent and be your own person and make your own choices, while still (maybe unconsciously) wanting their permission and approval. I don't know ... sexual issues are often not about sex. Sorry if my psychoanalysis offended you, if so, I apologize.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-82707079627058918262012-01-16T06:29:04.233-08:002012-01-16T06:29:04.233-08:00Hey,
I was told to do the same thing right at the ...Hey,<br />I was told to do the same thing right at the start of therapy. Do you still check your email address? If u ever want to write to me again with anything feel free. <br />Good luck hun, please don't give up. I'll email you soon.<br />SarahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-33469215864713055992012-01-02T17:26:16.258-08:002012-01-02T17:26:16.258-08:00A great, great post. I'm planning to start sex...A great, great post. I'm planning to start sex therapy this month to help with my twisted views of sex. I think of it as something men do to women. As a weapon. I'm not dating and have never been in a relationship, but it's something I'm beginning to pursue, so I want to get my head straight!<br /><br />Glad you'll get to work through some of these emotional and psychological difficulties. Disapproval of your marriage from your family would be a big deal even without the sexual pain issue.<br />--YCFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-59253853474336694782012-01-02T15:41:29.537-08:002012-01-02T15:41:29.537-08:00I'm with the others. Don't doubt your exp...I'm with the others. Don't doubt your experience. Btw, I thought of you when I read about female hernias in the NYT today. (I was behind on the Science section.) They cause sexual pain and are often misdiagnosed. Possible for you?<br />http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/17/health/17brody.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-7195492479046748242012-01-01T20:43:33.818-08:002012-01-01T20:43:33.818-08:00Sounds like a positive step. I have some issues th...Sounds like a positive step. I have some issues that people say seem like I was abused, but I know I wasn't. Focus on what you know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5174333506398573874.post-43187819945262155632012-01-01T14:22:15.424-08:002012-01-01T14:22:15.424-08:00if you think abuse is unlikely then I would follow...if you think abuse is unlikely then I would follow your gut and try and work on some of the other things! <br /><br />Keep hanging in there honey.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15881590483174001768noreply@blogger.com